FUCK YOUR FEELINGS!
Historically women have had the luxury of making decisions based on how they feel. All that was required of a woman to have HONOR was chastity before marriage and loyalty to her husband. "I don't feel like it" superseded any other duty or commitment.
Men, on the other hand, are duty bound to do what they say they will do. A MANβs word is not simply the highest virtue; It's the only way that aggressive ambitious MEN can operate together on a team, in society, or on a military campaign.
When a MAN makes commitments to himself and others a MAN follows through no matter how he feels in the moment.
This is the essence of HONOR and historically has been what separated men and women's roles in civilized society.
If a MAN cannot trust another to keep the promises he made to himself why would he think that MAN would keep promises to anyone else?